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The Retroactive Jealousy Guidebook

A powerful, easy-to-follow guidebook designed for those who want a practical plan to stop overthinking, interrupt obsessive loops, and get back to the person they want to be.

The Masters Edition RJ Course

The ultimate deep dive into understanding and transforming retroactive jealousy. Practical, in-depth, and empowering—this course brings together everything you’ve been searching for in one place.

One-on-One Coaching (Spots Filling Fast)

Ready for direct guidance? One-on-one coaching with The RJ Coach is open now, but spots are limited and fill quickly.

“I used to waste hours checking my partner’s past and comparing myself. Now that energy goes into my workouts, learning, and personal goals. I’m calmer, more focused, and genuinely proud of how much I’ve improved in every area of my life.”

“I reached a point where I was done replaying the same stories and picking apart every detail. I started focusing on my workouts, discipline, and mindset instead. Now I’m building results instead of regrets.”

“I used to lie awake for hours, stuck in loops about things I couldn’t change. Now I sleep better, train regularly, and wake up clear-headed. Shifting from worry to action gave me back structure, energy, and peace of mind.”

“I used to scroll through photos and old profiles searching for “clues.” Now I invest that time in improving myself — fitness, focus, and routines. It’s wild how much changes when you stop chasing ghosts and start building yourself.”

“Jealousy used to run my schedule. Now the gym, solid sleep, and meal prep do. Building discipline taught me self-respect again. I stopped trying to fix the past and started creating a stronger present — one routine at a time.”

“Therapy gave me talk, but I needed traction. Aaron helped me channel my thoughts into goals, structure, and daily improvement. I’ve stopped analyzing every detail of the past and started planning my future instead.”

“I’d watched all the videos, read all the advice, but nothing shifted until I took action. Aaron’s guidance gave me a system to follow. The moment I focused on growth instead of guilt, everything started moving forward.”

“I used to let jealousy define how I felt. Now I define it. Health, mindset, and progress became my priorities. I’m stronger, more grounded, and no longer reacting to the past. I’m building a version of myself I’m proud of.”

“I spent years thinking my problem was my partner’s past. Turns out, it was my lack of purpose. I started working out, sleeping better, and creating new goals. My focus shifted completely from overthinking to actually living.”

“Aaron helped me stop obsessing and start improving. The focus I once wasted on imaginary stories now fuels my progress. I’m more productive, confident, and calm and it’s because I finally started putting myself first.”

“I didn’t realize how much energy jealousy drained from me. Once I stopped feeding it, I had the bandwidth to build my business, train harder, and actually enjoy my life again. That shift alone changed everything.”

“My triggers used to control me, ruin my mornings, my mood, everything. Now I train, journal, and focus on progress instead. The same intensity that once hurt me now pushes me to grow. It’s a different kind of strength.”

“I’d told myself I couldn’t change. Aaron proved otherwise. His approach wasn’t talk, it was action. Small, consistent habits that built confidence fast. I’m not stuck in jealousy anymore; I’m moving forward every single day.”

“When I stopped digging for answers about the past, I found results in the present. My sleep improved, my confidence grew, and I finally started seeing progress. The best part? I did it by focusing on myself, not my partner.”

“I wasted years comparing myself to people who don’t even matter now. With Aaron’s help, I started focusing on my goals, body, and mindset. Every day I get a little stronger, more disciplined, and more like the person I want to be.”

“I had accepted that retroactive jealousy would always be a part of my life. I thought I just had to manage it forever. But working with Aaron changed that belief. For the first time, I feel like I’m not surviving it, I’m actually healing. I finally believe I’m allowed to move on.”